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Hi, I’m Louanne Ward.

For over 25 years I’ve helped people just like you realise and achieve their relationship goals. As an internationally accredited matchmaker, dating development coach and relationship rescue strategist I’ll share with you everything I’ve learnt along the way.

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SHARING SEXUAL DESIRES... SIZZLER OR FIZZLER?

SHARING SEXUAL DESIRES... SIZZLER OR FIZZLER?

Sharing your sexual desires and/or kinks with your partner… Have you or haven’t you? From working in Human Behaviour as a professional Dating and Relationship Coach and Matchmaker for over 25 years, the information I provide is from a vast history and knowledge from a variety of different topics and…
WHY ARE YOUNGER MEN ATTRACTED TO OLDER WOMEN AND OLDER MEN ATTRACTED TO YOUNGER WOMEN?

WHY ARE YOUNGER MEN ATTRACTED TO OLDER WOMEN AND OLDER MEN ATTRACTED TO YOUNGER WOMEN?

In my twenty plus years as a Matchmaker I have been privileged to have many, many people share their experiences with me and so the information I pass onto you, as always is unbiased. Let’s start with younger men and why they are attracted to older women. I married someone…
MANAGING WORKPLACE ROMANCES - IT'S NOT ALL BAD NEWS!

MANAGING WORKPLACE ROMANCES - IT'S NOT ALL BAD NEWS!

Has the taboo of workplace romance significantly decreased the dating pond to a dating puddle? -This is certainly a topic which seems to have people divided! Some people seem to think workplace romances are okay and others believe they are a definite ‘no-go zone!’ Whatever your take on workplace romances…
EVERY DAY IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO MEET SOMEBODY - YOU JUST NEED TO GET OUT OF YOUR BUBBLE

EVERY DAY IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO MEET SOMEBODY - YOU JUST NEED TO GET OUT OF YOUR BUBBLE

For those of you who have spent another weekend on your own, trying to get out there to meet someone, or simply thinking about how nice it would be to meet someone, here is your reminder that every day is another opportunity to this.  You really do have the opportunity…
5 TOP TIPS TO SURVIVING A CHRISTMAS BREAK UP

5 TOP TIPS TO SURVIVING A CHRISTMAS BREAK UP

It’s sad but true, the Festive Season sees more break ups than other times of year. Information compiled from statisticians who studied Facebook posts featuring breakup messages, has revealed the two weeks leading up to Christmas are peak break up times and the 11th December is the peak day for…
DATING & BODY LANGUAGE: WHAT ARE THE SIGNS?

DATING & BODY LANGUAGE: WHAT ARE THE SIGNS?

When you’re on a date, do you ever wonder whether the person you’re with actually likes you?  The conversation is flowing and the date is going well, but how do you know whether someone is really into you? We all know the basics of body language.  Such as, crossing your…
WHAT IS INFIDELITY?

WHAT IS INFIDELITY?

A big aspect of what I do as a Matchmaker, is helping people transition from single life to being in a relationship, and as a Relationship Coach for people who might already be in relationships gain a better understanding about their partner to enjoy a more fulfilling relationship. As per…
SEXUAL PASTS - WHEN IT COMES TO A NEW PARTNER; IS SHARING, CARING?

SEXUAL PASTS - WHEN IT COMES TO A NEW PARTNER; IS SHARING, CARING?

Entering a new relationship has many highs and tricky hurdles to jump over. Today, we are going to look at  what you should disclose to a new partner about your sexual past? For starters, I posed this question on my personal Facebook page and was overwhelmed with the amount of…
WHAT IS 'BAGGAGE'?

WHAT IS 'BAGGAGE'?

Is your perception of what baggage is, simply a protection of your previous experiences? Last week in my blog about when to introduce children to a new partner, I mentioned that most parents wouldn’t refer to their children as baggage, but people who haven’t had children, may have the perception,…